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Biblical and Quranic traditions on the upbringing of Lady Mary

An individualโ€™s nurture and upbringing is based on two conditions: genetic and acquired. Scholars and scientists differ as to whether inheritance or environment is more effective. Some believe that inherited factors are more important than environmental factors, such as August Kent and Herbert Spencer.

On the hand, there are people who believe that environmental factors are more important, such as Stewart Mill and John Locke who believe that many of the intellectual and behavioural characteristics develop and flourish in the environment. The reality is that both groups have actually taken the path of two extremes. Living beings are influenced by both environment and inheritance.

There are five general factors that bear on oneโ€™s upbringing:

  1. The instructor
  2. The individual
  3. The environment
  4. Their inheritance
  5. The spiritual and supernatural causes.

For Lady Mary, the instructor was Prophet Zechariah (a) who was given this task by Allah (swt).

The second factor is Lady Mary herself who was a worshipper, always prostrating, bowing, and supplicating. Every opportunity she found at the temple was spent in self-building and acts of worship. She was virtuous, chaste, and far from Satan as Lady Maryโ€™s mother had asked for when she prayed to God:

ููŽู„ูŽู…ู‘ูŽุง ูˆูŽุถูŽุนูŽุชู’ู‡ูŽุง ู‚ูŽุงู„ูŽุชู’ ุฑูŽุจู‘ู ุฅูู†ู‘ููŠ ูˆูŽุถูŽุนู’ุชูู‡ูŽุง ุฃูู†ุซูŽู‰ ูˆูŽุงู„ู„ู‘ู‡ู ุฃูŽุนู’ู„ูŽู…ู ุจูู…ูŽุง ูˆูŽุถูŽุนูŽุชู’ ูˆูŽู„ูŽูŠู’ุณูŽ ุงู„ุฐู‘ูŽูƒูŽุฑู ูƒูŽุงู„ุฃูู†ุซูŽู‰ ูˆูŽุฅูู†ู‘ููŠ ุณูŽู…ู‘ูŽูŠู’ุชูู‡ูŽุง ู…ูŽุฑู’ูŠูŽู…ูŽ ูˆูุฅูู†ู‘ููŠ ุฃูุนููŠุฐูู‡ูŽุง ุจููƒูŽ ูˆูŽุฐูุฑู‘ููŠู‘ูŽุชูŽู‡ูŽุง ู…ูู†ูŽ ุงู„ุดู‘ูŽูŠู’ุทูŽุงู†ู ุงู„ุฑู‘ูŽุฌููŠู…ู

And when she bore her, she said, โ€˜My Lord, I have borne a female [child]โ€™ โ€”and God knew better what she had borne โ€” โ€˜and the male is not like the female. I have named her Mary, and I commend her and her offspring to Your care against [the evil of] the outcast Satan.โ€™ (3:36)

The third factor is the environment. Lady Mary was definitely influenced by a healthy environment. She grew up in the temple, a place where people would come to pray to God.

The fourth factor is inheritance and genetics. As stated in the Qurโ€™an, Lady Mary was from the family of โ€˜Imran and in His book, Allah has โ€˜chosenโ€™ the Family of โ€˜Imran where He says:

ุฅูู†ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ู„ู‘ู‡ูŽ ุงุตู’ุทูŽููŽู‰ ุขุฏูŽู…ูŽ ูˆูŽู†ููˆุญู‹ุง ูˆูŽุขู„ูŽ ุฅูุจู’ุฑูŽุงู‡ููŠู…ูŽ ูˆูŽุขู„ูŽ ุนูู…ู’ุฑูŽุงู†ูŽ ุนูŽู„ูŽู‰ ุงู„ู’ุนูŽุงู„ูŽู…ููŠู†ูŽ

Indeed Allah chose Adam and Noah and the progeny of Abraham and the progeny of โ€˜Imran above all the nations. (3:33)

Because โ€˜Imran is of the Family of Abraham, Allah the Exalted could have simply used Family of Abraham and not have mentioned Family of Imran in the verse. However, due to the virtue of that family (which were no more than three individuals: the mother of Mary, Lady Mary herself, and Jesus), Allah the Exalted separately spoke of the Family of Imran and included them amongst the chosen and dignified.

For this reason, in terms of inheritance and genetics, the originality of Maryโ€™s lineage and her purity is approved by the Qurโ€™an.

The fifth factor is the spiritual and supernatural causes. With regards to Maryโ€™s nobility and spiritual virtues, it is enough to say that in her perfection she rose above the Prophet of her time (Zechariah). This was to the point that every time Zechariah visited her in the Temple, he would see heavenly provisions at Lady Maryโ€™s disposal.

Thus, this good upbringing and proper and complete growth was gathered in Lady Mary and one can say her being chosen was both genetic and acquired. In the Gospel she is only known to be an ordinary person who so happened to be chosen for the birth of Jesus Christ.

According to Islamic narrations, Mary the daughter of โ€˜Imran was of the lineage of Aaron and Levi, but according to Christian narrations she was not of the lineage of Levi; rather, her ancestry reached King David. Her motherโ€™s name was โ€˜Hannahโ€™ or โ€˜Hanaโ€™ whose sister was Elizabeth, the wife of Prophet Zecharias.

According to the Qurโ€™an, โ€˜Imranโ€™s wife had made vow to dedicate her child to serving at the Temple. Even though โ€˜Imranโ€™s child was a female, they allowed her to worship at the Temple. Hannah named her child Mary, meaning โ€˜the worshipper,โ€™ and her uncle Zechariah was to convince the priests to allow Mary to live in Solomonโ€™s Temple in Jerusalem.

According to biblical sources, Mary was an ordinary girl who would go to Heichal (a place of worship) in Jerusalem only on Jewish holidays. In the Gospel there is no sign of Mary being โ€˜chosenโ€™ and โ€˜distinguishedโ€™ until the point in time where God spoke to her. According to Christian belief, the basis for why Mary was chosen as the one to give birth to Jesus Christ was simply a decision made by God based on His wisdom.

According to the Qurโ€™an (3:44), the temple priests and the Israelite scholars had a dispute over who should be given Maryโ€™s guardianship and custody. They made a draw by throwing their pens into the water. All of the pens sunk into water and only Zechariahโ€™s pen stayed afloat.

Thus, Zechariah obtained the custody of Mary and built her a room atop the temple; every few days, using a ladder, he would go up to her room and would take essentials for her. Zechariah would also witness her nobility when he visited her:

ูˆูŽูƒูŽูู‘ูŽู„ูŽู‡ูŽุง ุฒูŽูƒูŽุฑููŠู‘ูŽุง ูƒูู„ู‘ูŽู…ูŽุง ุฏูŽุฎูŽู„ูŽ ุนูŽู„ูŽูŠู’ู‡ูŽุง ุฒูŽูƒูŽุฑููŠู‘ูŽุง ุงู„ู’ู…ูุญู’ุฑูŽุงุจูŽ ูˆูŽุฌูŽุฏูŽ ุนูู†ุฏูŽู‡ูŽุง ุฑูุฒู’ู‚ุงู‹ ู‚ูŽุงู„ูŽ ูŠูŽุง ู…ูŽุฑู’ูŠูŽู…ู ุฃูŽู†ู‘ูŽู‰ ู„ูŽูƒู ู‡ูŽุฐูŽุง ู‚ูŽุงู„ูŽุชู’ ู‡ููˆูŽ ู…ูู†ู’ ุนูู†ุฏู ุงู„ู„ู‘ู‡ู ุฅู†ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ู„ู‘ู‡ูŽ ูŠูŽุฑู’ุฒูู‚ู ู…ูŽู† ูŠูŽุดูŽุงุก ุจูุบูŽูŠู’ุฑู ุญูุณูŽุงุจู

โ€ฆWhenever Zechariah visited her in the sanctuary, he would find provisions with her. He said, โ€˜O Mary, from where does this come for you?โ€™ She said, โ€˜It comes from Allah. Allah provides whomever He wishes without any reckoning. (3:37)

Of course when exploring the great status of Mary, we must not forget her motherโ€™s important role. Even though the growth and nurturing of Mary were in the hands of Zechariah, this was still at the final stages of her rearing. Maryโ€™s mother had the worthiness to give birth to a mother of a prophet and she had great insight which made her decide to send her daughter to the temple.

The most important point regarding Maryโ€™s mother is how God accepted her daughter in the best possible way:

ููŽุชูŽู‚ูŽุจู‘ูŽู„ูŽู‡ูŽุง ุฑูŽุจู‘ูู‡ูŽุง ุจูู‚ูŽุจููˆู„ู ุญูŽุณูŽู†ู ูˆูŽุฃูŽู†ุจูŽุชูŽู‡ูŽุง ู†ูŽุจูŽุงุชู‹ุง ุญูŽุณูŽู†ู‹ุง …

Thereupon her Lord accepted her with a gracious acceptance, and made her grow up in a worthy fashion, and He charged Zechariah with her care… (3:37)

Allah (swt) gave this lady many gifts and blessings and she was capable of safeguarding them. Allah (swt) chooses people for His missions like being role models for people based on His wisdom:

ุงู„ู„ู‘ูŽู‡ู ุฃูŽุนู’ู„ูŽู…ู ุญูŽูŠู’ุซู ูŠูŽุฌู’ุนูŽู„ู ุฑูุณูŽุงู„ูŽุชูŽู‡ู

โ€œAllah knows best where to place His apostleshipโ€ (6:124).

And Mary was an example of this.

We can say that even though Mary was chosen based on her family background, her formation in the womb of her mother and her superb upbringing by her mother, she continued to improve under the guardianship of Zechariah in her nurture and growth. Of course, as mentioned before, her true guardian was Allah.


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