Our job is to ask, over and over again.
Why supplication is the solution to every problem
Our job is to ask, over and over again.
In every person’s life, there comes a moment when he/she feels completely helpless. Many people would agree to get stuck in dead end problems; a problem whose solution isn’t in our control, or even if there is a way out of that specific situation, it would be one that is not favorable.
These problems, in reality, are a blessing from Allah. It might take time for us to realize that these issues are what brings us closer to Allah. When we feel helpless in our lives, we realize, nothing ever really was in our control, we are servants of Allah and He is Malik al Mulk, The Owner of All Sovereignty.
When we recite Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un, we are testifying to the fact that “We belong to Allah and to Him, we shall return.”
Sending problems our way is Allah’s way of bringing us closer to Him. Once again, it might be because we were so busy with our lives that we didn’t stop and ponder over the reason behind our creation that we deviated from the straight path or it could be because we were living in a cycle, offering our prayers but aimlessly, asking for things from Allah but never believing in them or being hasty, sinning but never repenting and most importantly, losing the ability to wait and think. When our Prophet Muhammad received the first revelation in the cave of Hira, Angel Jibrael asked him to “Read.” The hadith gives us a clear picture of the events of the cave of Hira.
“The angel came to him and asked him to read. The Prophet replied ‘I do not know how to read’. The Prophet added, ‘The angel caught me (forcibly) and pressed me so hard that I could not bear it anymore. He then released me and again asked me to read and I replied, “I do not know how to read”. Thereupon he caught me again and pressed me a second time till I could not bear it anymore. He then released me and again asked me to read, but again I replied, “I do not know how to read” (or what shall I read?). Thereupon he caught me for the third time and pressed me, and then released me and said: “Read, in the name of Your Lord, who created, created man from a clot. Read! And Your Lord is the most bountiful” … (Bukhari)
Surah Alaq was the first Surah revealed to our Prophet Muhammad and the first verse clearly emphasizes the need to acquire knowledge of the Quran – and acquiring knowledge requires us to ponder over things, their meanings, and also to understand the logic behind the wisdom of things. We can never stress enough upon the importance of gaining knowledge, it helps us understand things more clearly, it makes us more patient, it makes us better people and most importantly, it helps us get to know Allah better.
Another reason behind us having problems in our life could be that Allah wants to elevate our status in the hereafter. Allah says in Surah Baqarah, verses 155 and 156:
“And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient, Who, when disaster strikes them, say, “Indeed we belong to Allah, and indeed to Him we will return.”
Allah also says in the 39th chapter of the Qur’an:
Say, “O My servants who have believed, fear your Lord. For those who do good in this world is good, and the earth of Allah is spacious. Indeed, the patient will be given their reward without account.” (39:10)
Now that we’ve established why we have problems in our lives, let’s discuss how can we get out of them and how can we truly have the things we want in our lives.
The only way I can think of to get what we want in life with my limited knowledge is Dua (supplication).
Dua is the essence of worship. When a need emerges in our lives, something we so desperately want that we can never even imagine giving up on it. The need that drives us to do things we never thought we’d do. It can be different for different people. For example, a childless couple may never find it in themselves to give up on trying to have a baby and miracles happen where people end up having babies after they turn 40 or even later than that. Temporarily, we all get disappointed at times, but never completely giving up and finding the courage to get up, sitting on the prayer mat and crying in front of Allah, when we feel the lowest, is a part of staying hopeful, it is a part of building a relationship with Allah.
I’ve been personally struggling with something in my life. In my experience, nobody in this world can really understand how we feel, what we go through, even the people we’re struggling for. The more we discuss our issues with other people, the more depressed we feel. People do not understand the need that drives us. People look at the situation and advise, without considering our feelings but Allah is the only one who truly understands.
Every time we talk to Him, we’ll find our hearts being comforted. Dr. Bilal Phillips said a person should never be afraid to ask for what seems impossible, Allah isn’t limited by our reality. Impossible exists only in our minds. There is nothing our Al-Khaliq cannot do. He created the heavens, the earth. He created us from a sperm drop and He will resurrect us again after we’re long gone. He provides for each and every one of His creatures. Solving our tiny wishes is nothing for Him.
On the authority of Abu Dharr al-Ghifaree from the Prophet from his Lord, that He said:
“O My servants! I have forbidden dhulm (oppression) for Myself, and I have made it forbidden amongst you, so do not oppress one another.
O My servants, all of you are astray except those whom I have guided, so seek guidance from Me and I shall guide you.
O My servants, all of you are hungry except those whom I have fed, so seek food from Me and I shall feed you.
O My servants, all of you are naked except those whom I have clothed, so seek clothing from Me and I shall clothe you.
My servants, you commit sins by day and by night, and I forgive all sins, so seek forgiveness from Me and I shall forgive you.
My servants, you will not attain harming Me so as to harm Me, and you will not attain benefiting Me so as to benefit Me.
O My servants, if the first of you and the last of you, and the humans of you and the jinn of you, were all as pious as the most pious heart of any individual amongst you, then this would not increase My Kingdom an iota.
O My servants, if the first of you and the last of you, and the humans of you and the jinn of you, were all as wicked as the most wicked heart of any individual amongst you, then this would not decrease My Kingdom an iota.
O My servants, if the first of you and the last of you, and the humans of you and the jinn of you, were all to stand together in one place and ask of Me, and I were to give everyone what he requested, then that would not decrease what I Possess, except what is decreased of the ocean when a needle is dipped into it.
My servants, it is but your deeds that I account for you, and then recompense you for. So he who finds good, let him praise Allah, and he who finds other than that, let him blame no one but himself.” (Reference: 40 Hadith Nawawi 24, English translation: Hadith 24)
Allah is the only hope a person is left with after being completely shattered over and over again. But we should never stop believing and trusting Allah. The whole world was against Prophet Ibrahim (A.S). He was the only Muslim in the world at that time, yet Allah made his stay in the fire cool and peaceful, as opposed to charring and harmful. Allah listened to the prayer of Prophet Yunus from the depths of the sea, and He forgave him and saved him. Allah says in Surah Mulk, Verse 20:
“Or who is it that could be an army for you to aid you other than the Most Merciful? The disbelievers are not but in delusion.”
If Allah is on our side, nothing can stand against us. Our job is to ask, over and over again. Our job is to show to Allah that we love Him and we’re grateful to Him for the countless blessings He bestowed upon us without our asking. Our job is to trust that Allah will grant us what we ask of Him because now we’re begging Him.
This journey isn’t easy, for the most of us. Staying hopeful when the situation at hand is ending every ounce of energy we’ve got, the whole world around us is bringing us down, when giving up is the easiest and less painful option can be really difficult. Believe in those moments that Allah loves to be asked. Imagine yourself in the court of a just, kind and caring king, imagine you’re asking Him and believe that He won’t disappoint you. He won’t let you leave His court empty handed.
If Allah hadn’t willed it, we would not have been asking for those things in the first place. He wants us to ask Him and only Him! He loves to give! And He will suffice His believers in every possible way. Hasbunallahu wa ni’mal wakeel!
By Zaineb Nawaz